Connection Game Under Construction

Listener Helps to Explore Deeper

1. "What are you feeling?" -> "Can you describe your emotions in more detail? What physical sensations do you experience when you feel this way?"

2. "What else are you feeling?" -> "Are there any secondary emotions you're experiencing in addition to your primary feeling? How do these emotions relate to each other?"

3. "What are your primary needs here?" -> "What specific needs do you have that are not currently being met? How do these needs impact your overall well-being?"

4. "What do you really wish for?" -> "If you could have anything in this situation, what would it be? How would this change the outcome?"

5. "How did this all evolve?" -> "Can you walk me through the events that led to this situation? How did each event impact the outcome?"

6. "Who are the main characters in these feelings you're talking about?" -> "Are there specific people or factors that are contributing to your emotions? How do these people/factors impact your feelings?"

7. "What would you really like to say, and to whom?" -> "Is there something you haven't expressed yet that you want to share? Why haven't you expressed it?"

8. "What are the feelings you are afraid to even think about?" -> "Are there any emotions you're avoiding or repressing? Why are you hesitant to explore these emotions?"

9. "Do you have any mixed feelings? What are they?" -> "Are there conflicting emotions you're experiencing simultaneously

10. How do these emotions interact with each other?" 

11. "What would you do differently if you could?" ->

12.  "If you could go back and change this situation, what would you do? How would that affect the outcome?" "What would help you feel better right now?" -> 

13. "What could you do to ease your distress in the present moment? 

14. How can you take care of yourself in this situation?"

15.  "What does this experience mean to you?" -> 

16. "How does this experience affect your overall outlook and life? 

17. What lessons can you take away from it?" "

18. How do you think this situation will unfold?" -> 

19. "What is your prediction for the future? 

20. What do you see happening next?" 

21. "What would it feel like if this situation changed?" -> "

22. How would you feel if you could achieve a positive outcome? 

23. What would that look like for you?"